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Gary Buzzard's avatar

No, it's definitely not too late, Don. I love your writing and your take on old age. Here's to an enlightening 70s! As I enter my 80s, I'll be reading more of you.

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Don Akchin's avatar

Thank you, and thanks for subscribing!

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Michelle S's avatar

I missed this and glad i circled back! I’m in!

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jeff davison's avatar

I sounds good, I am lookin forward to it.

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Bob Tucker's avatar

What a great way to reconnect. Thanks, Don! Bob(by) Tucker

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Don Akchin's avatar

Great to hear from you, Bob. Hope you and family are well.

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Jim Larmoyeux's avatar

Nice! Tom Arceneaux told me about this. You're still connected with journalism, from a Jr. High paper route with the Shreveport Journal to now! How cool is that?

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Don Akchin's avatar

Way cool! So good to hear from you, Jim. Hope you are well and happy in our mutual dotage.

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Robert Eatman's avatar

Don, I appreciate the chance to see more of your writing. That was well done.

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Ron Williams's avatar

Thanks Don! It is scary how our society treats our elders, as if they no longer have value and contributing power. Your article reinforces that you are worthy in your fourth quarter, and you can live a full life on your own terms!

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Don Akchin's avatar

Thanks, Bobby. You still come up in conversation when I try to explain how I earned my latent skills in tennis and chess. I hope you are well and thriving.

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Don Akchin's avatar

Thanks, Gina.

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Nan Bauer-Maglin's avatar

You might be interested in my book Gray Love: Stories About Dating and New Relationships After 60

Nan Bauer-Maglin and Daniel E. Hood (Rutgers University Press, January 13, 2023)

Cupid’s got a lousy sense of humor. We just keep longing for romance and companionship—even in our nineties. Love’s a drive--like thirst and hunger. And this book shows this yearning (and resignation) among older folks with touching delicacy and exquisite sophistication. It’s a treasure.

--Dr. Helen Fisher, Chief Science Advisor to Match.com, author of Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray

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Nearly a quarter of the US population is over 60, and a remarkably large number of those people are single and searching for a partner. For older people, dating is full of challenges, but can also lead to sweet surprises.

In Gray Love, forty-five men and women, aged 60 to 94, tell their stories about looking for love, starting or ending relationships, and embracing life alone or settling in with a new partner. The contributors come from a variety of different backgrounds; some are people of color, and some are gay or lesbian, but all offer candid reflections on dating and romance as a single senior. Some discuss experiences that could happen at any age: the travails of online dating, handling the baggage of past relationships, deciding whether to move in together. Others describe situations that are specific to older people, like feeling insecure about one’s aging body or dealing with adult children who disapprove of one’s new partner. Together, they offer sometimes funny, sometimes poignant reflections that remind us how the desire for human connection persists at any age.

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ekz's avatar

cool, don!

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Gina Pera's avatar

Nicely done, Don! I look forward to more.

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