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10 hrs ago·edited 9 hrs agoLiked by Don Akchin

You know what your fave foods are and you eat them willy-nilly. You can take both a morning and an afternoon nap to make up for a restless night. You can read all day every day for a month or two. You can invest a ton of time in relationships with your dearest friends. You can watch hummingbirds eat a feeder in your backyard for hours….

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Ooh, I like these! Thanks, Wayne!

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No kale but the rest is great and perfect inspiration!

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Thanks, Alice. We'll make kale optional.

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At age 82 I can attest to the correctness of your essay. Its wonderful and thanks for posting.

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Thank you for that great endorsement!

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13 hrs agoLiked by Don Akchin

Yes to all you say! And for even more reasons, read Jeanette Leardi's book, "Aging Sideways". I've been reading a chapter every morning to get my mojo going.

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Wendl, that's high praise. I'll check it out.

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Time to spend with grandchildren! (Or time not to spend with grandchildren!)

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I am 77 years old, the secret to healthy aging is involvement, especially in the community!

The more we contribute, the more visible we are.

Age gives us meaning and we have a higher evaluation system from different experiences and we can see beauty more clearly!

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Wise remarks, Ermira. Thank you.

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11 hrs agoLiked by Don Akchin

Don, this is spot on today! I would add that aging allows us to discover new ways to enjoy our lives, and make new friends even. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

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Thank you, Karen, for these great additional benefits.

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You don't have anything to prove. You're not striving, just being.

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Good point! Thanks.

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What you’ve said is correct but it bothers me that so many older people rely on a plethora of drugs without taking much responsibility for their health.

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This is one of your best columns yet--I'm going to send it to my kids to reflect on in their dotage.

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