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Since I've been staying with my mother, I've been watching a lot of 60 Minutes, the national evening news, and other shows that target the elderly demographic. Most of what we see are pharmaceutical ads, with a few financial advisers sprinkled in. And these folks are having the time of their lives because of the liberation provided by one drug or another. They're going up in hot air balloons, creating and selling crafts at fairs, playing catch with their grandkids (reminds me of the old "doctor, will I play the violin?" joke.) But I have a different beef and have written to several pharma companies to let them know: In most cases, everyone seems to live in a world without the pandemic. In the first few months last year, I could understand--it takes a lot of $$ and effort to produce new ads. But after a year, it's really shameful and irresponsible for drug companies, in particular, to ignore a reality critical to older (and other) people. They do everything they can to show us how "normal" they can make life for us--why not use it as an opportunity to provide the important public service of showing consumers how they can have better lives products while practicing safe behavior?

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Isn't it great to know that now we can be normal if we just take lots of drugs?

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Miriam, I agree with you! Another thing that drives me mad is how the advertising co-opts the music of our youth to sell us their drugs. "O, O, O, Ozempic" used to be "O, O, O, it's magic," for example.

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Apr 17, 2021Liked by Don Akchin

We are the 800 lb gorilla in the room: greater in numbers and wealth. Even if ignored by others, I’m perfectly content in my own fur.

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It's just odd that in the ad business, old habits die hard.

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Agree. I’ve always maintained that Boomers get what they (we) want, and priorities to develop health/life improvements follow suit (e.g., birth control when we were younger; skin care, Viagra, and continuous-care residences as we age). But while the scientists are busy keeping us happy and companies are taking our money, the culture is on a different track, as Don points out.

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Apr 17, 2021Liked by Don Akchin

All I can say is I’m glad they’re not portraying MY retired image in the media.

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I'm with you there!

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Apr 17, 2021Liked by Don Akchin

Well researched and well written, this is an important observation that needs to be read and acted upon by people of all ages!

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Apr 17, 2021Liked by Don Akchin

I agree...he is a great researcher and writer.

How about the ad with the Life Coach teaching semi-older folks how not to become their parents “ the waiter doesn’t have to know your name.”

Like we are too stupid to function in our modern world without embarrassing our children.

I am quite sure, however, this is not going to change.

Z

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Maybe you are smart enough. I seem to be able to embarrass my children just being myself.

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I try to make a habit of it.

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Thanks, Sean!

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The truth is, some of us in our late 60's and early 70's are still taking care of parents in their 90's and 100+. These elderly in the commercials....I know few like them, unless they are in their 80's! I think the baby boomers have gone beyond suffering from the Peter Pan syndrome, and are, instead, practicing age-defying magic!

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Well said, Bev. We've gone from the Pepsi Generation to the Sandwich Generation.

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Not quite anymore! I, gratefully, don't have to support or take care of my kids. Well, maybe just a little loving and nurturing.

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