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Patricia Shearer's avatar

For those of us born to parents who survived the Great Depression, we were trained to heed the Inner Critic. “Amount to something!” “Get an education” were mantras in my house starting at about age 2 or 3. I wondered a few years ago when I completed a second fellowship to add to my two advanced degrees if my parents would have considered that enough.

In medicine we all have an Inner Critic that asks whether we did all we could in a given case. That’s a good thing. What’s not as good is to ruminate on past discrepancies or even errors and get stymied in moving forward.

I personally find the current climate of holism generally healthy. That is, we are more than the sum of our parts and the universe is made of countless perspectives other than our own.

I enjoy being outside, watching the night sky, absorbing great music, and experiencing myself as a tiny, yet relevant part of it all. The philosophical shift into a more universal view that comes at our time of life is richly reassuring.

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Michelle S's avatar

Great read...again! I can't believe YOU have this friend too. I thought I was the only one. Sometimes it doesn't help especially when you have a small business (you know) with employees who mistreat you. But even more so when you're an artist! Toughest job ever, IMO- putting all of yourself out there for the world to see. You cant cram or fudge, or pretend at all. All of those strategies are good to know and I have practiced a few. I personally have to expel it out loud- GET OUT! Or start to visualize something pleasant to calm my brain. Thank you again for your writings!

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